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Welcome to our sex party!
Like any other DIY event, it's what people who show up make of it.
Here are some expectations that we find we have in common:
Transform ourselves
Be daring and delicious
Dress up
Learn
Take risks and enjoy them
Have fun
Be considerate, respectful and kind
You are responsible for yourself. Ask people around for information or
help
when you need it.
Let's all help each other. Some of us will also take turns to wear a
sash
and make ourselves available to help solve any problems.
Just watching is OK. Leave space for people to enjoy themselves.
Asking people not to watch is OK too.
One of the fun things about a sex party is asking and talking about
what you
feel like doing.
Pay attention to yourself. Pay attention to others.
Paying attention means listening and communicating clearly.
No means No.
Excuse me, what are you doing means No.
Please leave me alone means leave me alone and don't hover near me
for
the rest of the event.
Think smart about safe sex. Take care of any sexually transmitted
diseases
that you have and don't catch any at Queeruption.
Sex is about enjoying each other, not about competition.
Use alcohol and other drugs respectfully to your own body and the
people
around you. Think about ways of gaining courage and feeling good about
yourself.
Clean up after yourself. Help keep the place clean. Ash in ashtrays.
Condoms
in bins. Needles in sharps bins.
People's gender identity is diverse; do not assume you'll find the
genitals you expect.
You're welcome to leave at any time.
**Remember you are responsible for yourself. That includes diseases,
emotional trauma, stress, new relationships, old relationships,
children,
boredom, sleeplessness, muscle cramps or other (possibly) unwanted
consequences of attending or not attending this party! Take care of
yourself!**
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